My husband and I have reached 12 years of marriage. Yay!! We have learned from each other, seen each other at our best and worst, and made mistakes. We have also learned from those who came before us through marriage books and resources. As our anniversary date approached (I'm writing this 2 months early!!), I started reflecting on the formative books that shaped my perspective and actions in our marriage. Below is a list (in no particular order) of the books that have shaped me the most!
Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud, John Townsend
Romancing Your Husband by Debra White Smith
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Red-Hot Monogamy by Bill and Pam Farrel
Making Marriage Simple by Harvill Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
The Good Fight Dr. Les and Leslie Parrott
Everybody Fights by Kim and Penn Holderness
25 Ways to Communicate Respect for Your Husband by Jennifer Flanders
Passion and Purity by Elisabeth Elliot
The 4 Seasons of Marriage by Gary Chapman
What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage by Amy Sutherland
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish